SEPTEMBER 15, 2004
VOLUME 1 NO. 16
 

New breed of psychotherapists says 'Go ahead, make my day'

Dialectical behaviour therapy is the latest 'tough love' approach
to hit the couch. Have you gotta be cruel to be kind?


The 'snap out of it!' approach to mental illness may have gone out with treatments like lobotomies, laudanum, and straightjackets, but it may again be time to throw off the kid gloves. Tough love is making a comeback.

A tough talking revolution called dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) was unleashed on psychotherapists' couches in the early 1990s by Dr Marsha Linehan, a professor of psychiatry and psychology at the University of Washington. It takes a gloves-off approach to treating borderline personality disorder, a condition typically marked by intense anger, emotional neediness, dissociative behaviour, self-mutilation and persistent attempts at suicide. Proponents swear by the therapy's 'irreverent communication' methods, saying it 'jolts' these notoriously difficult-to-treat patients to (as Dr Phil would say) "jack it up and do something about it."

DIALECTICAL MATERIAL
DBT is based on the idea that understanding is reached through resolution of two opposing arguments. On one side, it balances 'radical acceptance' (which teaches patients to accept who they are and admit that they are not who they want to be) with problem-solving techniques aimed at helping patients learn skills for regulating emotions and coping with stress. On the other side, DBT insists that patients make a commitment to stop self-destructive acts and presents them with four options for responding to a problem: solve it, feel better about it by regulating your response, tolerate the problem or just stay miserable. For instance, a patient might say "I want to die." Her DBT doctor will reply, "What's stopping you?" "You're basically saying to your patient 'yes, this awful thing happened and this is how you feel about it, but now it's time to do something about it,'" says Dr Marlene Hunter, a GP-psychotherapist and director of the Labyrinth Victoria Centre for Dissociation, in Victoria, BC.

The therapy's a hit with both doctors and patients. "DBT is very good in that it gives patients a different perspective and teaches them to just be aware of their feelings without working too hard to change them," says Dr Hunter. "Just being aware, watching and observing helps them temper their reactions." Studies have shown that patients who underwent DBT made fewer suicide attempts, spent less time in hospital and were more likely to stick with their treatment program than those who received other, more standard types of therapy. Today, DBT's applications have been expanded and it's not just used for borderline personality disorder but also for anxiety, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder.

TOUGH COMPASSION
But the same confrontational approach that appeals to practitioners and patients has earned DBT the label of being a tough love therapy. "I'm not sure I agree with that," says Dr Shelley McMain, head of the Dialectical Behaviour Therapy Clinic at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health in Toronto. "One of the key findings from DBT research is that many clients find it a very compassionate approach that makes them feel understood."

Dr Hunter agrees. "It's an effective approach for people who have trouble taking ownership of their problems, but it's not for everybody," she says. "I certainly would not recommend it for people who are very, very emotionally fragile."

Dr McMain and other counsellors in her clinic were Canadian DBT pioneers, having adopted the approach about eight years ago, but the treatment continues to gain acceptance apace. Correctional Services have been using DBT since 1997 to treat female inmates with emotional and behavioural problems.

But Dr Hunter cautions that DBT should not be seen as a one-size-fits-all solution to borderline personality disorder. "Nothing works for everybody," she says. "For some, DBT is very confrontational, so I would not use it until the patient feels a degree of security within themselves and with us."

 

 

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